
没有 "美mau" 了... 远我已去了.
No Christmas hang out for me this year.
No Pavillion, No Mid Valley, No KLCC, No Orchard Road. 가고 싶어 죽겠다 !!!

다음에 보자 .......
다음에 보자 .......
Some photo comments and wishes I've received in friendster...
Very creative, YS and Beah!
Talking about friendster, I wonder why some friendster'mate who have viewed my profile are not willing to leave a message. It is like "going to people's home without saying hello". It could be anything under the sun.
Maybe like what I've learned in ABE, the way of Culture is very important. Or maybe I am the one who is sticking to the culture. Let me try to retrieve the notes.
National culture
It is the way you were brought up
Your culture is like your nose:
• although you do not see it properly yourself,
• everybody else perceives it,
• and thinks it is peculiar if it differs from theirs.
moreover,
• you always go where it leads you, and
• it is always in the way.
Quanxi
• Personal Relationship
– The first important thing to understand is that the Asian believes in the continuity of relationships.
– Business is based on personal relationships.
– Do not expect to achieve business from cold calling.
– An introduction is still an absolute essential to obtain business in Asia.
The best way to introduce yourself to an Asian businessman is through a third party. Getting an introduction at the highest level saves having to go through the organization, level by level.
– Perhaps this is the reason why exclusive business clubs with exorbitant entrance fee still attract the desired membership amongst the business people.
INTRODUCTIONS
• The person with the highest rank is normally introduced first.
• Everyone else is introduced in turn according to their rank.
• Avoid using first names, that is, either your own or those of your Asian counterpart.
• First names are used only among close friends and family. Asians will feel uncomfortable calling another person by their first name unless the relationship is very close.
"Face"
• A society based on such a humanistic culture is highly personalized with a consciousness of not only oneself but of government and authority too.
• Consciousness of oneself produces this extreme feeling, or regard, for "face". "Face" is an aspect of not only everyday Chinese life but all other parts of Asia. In South East Asia, "face" is important because:-
• * every person has a place, and
• * that place must be respected
• * another person's place should never be trespassed on
• * nor personal dignity directly affronted
• "Face" therefore, has a deeper and more profound meaning to Asians than the Western word "honor". Every Asian especially Chinese, high or low, has a "face" to protect.
• Generally, to oblige is to give "face" and not to oblige is to cause the other party to lose "face". If a person has a sufficiently important position or has some relationship with you and he comes to ask for a favor which it is reasonable for you to give, but you refuse, he or she has lost "face". In Chinese tradition, not to give a man "face" is rude.
I am carrying this type of personality. Sounds a bit like Korean ha...
Nami - Winter Sonata
Saw these posts in soompi and these made me to recall my memories once in Nami Island...
Some photos in Nami Island
Nowadays abundant advertisement capturing the trip to Korea with different exciting packages and attractive prices. Who would not be "influenced" or "attracted" by the amazing advertisement and the multicolouring scenery there? Exactly, who would not wish of studying or migrating to Korea... But my present status is fine too. I have decided not to miss Korea too much. I shall put it under the list of what I want to achieve. I know I can have a second visit there by myself.
Is your birthday day 7 of the month?
Your Life
You are sensitive to changes around you but your feeling is hardlyexpressed. You hate exaggerations. Under your quiet personality, you arerather stubborn and self-centered. These qualities are the force behind yourextreme persistence.
Your Love
You have enormous courage to please your lover. Your relationship oftenprogress quickly.
Ready to Fly 远走高飞 Ad.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kELfzXMCTDo&feature=channel_page&fmt=18
My dream and everyone's dream...
Loveholic Epi 16 (7/7)
Happy and Fresh Feeling Ending!!! Kangta & Kim Min-sun...
I dont know why
Upon seeing this part of ending
I feel free
What I mean is
I have learned that
One should not be so stubborn
To stick on a thing
But one should be carrying on the life
And when the time comes
Sure the chance to accomplish a thing
Will come true.
K.o.r.e.a , I'll keep you deep in my heart and I am looking forward to go to you again !
Also I like one of the subsongs from this drama,
It is 후애 (After Love) / 조장혁
더는 담아둘 곳 없네요
그댈 사랑하는 내맘을
나 그대에게 항상주지 못하고
숨기기만 했던 난 내안에 없죠
막혀버린 나의 사랑이
탈이난 것처럼 아파도
언제나 말하지 못해
늘 바보처럼 늘 내안에 눌러담는데
이젠 모두 줄래요 나의 사랑을
나의 마음속에 담아둘 빈곳이 없어
나 이제 더는 감당할 수 없네요
이렇게 커진 나의 사랑을
그대 곁에서 숨쉴 수 만 있다면
내게 오직 단 하루라도 괜찮죠
그대 나를 상관하나요
나에 눈을 보고 말해요
아파요 내 마음처럼
말하지 못해 늘 내앞에 감춰 왔겠죠
이젠 내게 줄래요
그대 사랑을 항상 그댈 위해 비워둔 나에 가슴에
나 이제 더는 감당할 수 없네요
이렇게 커진 나의 사랑을
그대 곁에서 숨쉴 수 만 있다면
내게 오직 단 하루라도 괜찮죠
알아요 이미 그대곁엔
내가 아닌 다른 누군가 살고 있단걸
그대여~
이제는 아파 삼킬 수 없어
그대 아니면 세상 어떤 누구도
손댈 수 없는 나의 사랑을 드려요...
The song is available at http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VT3YeJH1e1s&feature=related